- Never let your full personality light shine around men, they will assume you’re flirting with them. Dim yourself. (F that, btw.)
- When you meet someone new, try not to spend 100% of your time together judging them, rather, spend it trying to get to know and understand them.
- If you don’t click, you don’t. Never force it. You’ll live to regret it.
- That little voice in your head that tells you to run? Listen to it every time.
- Nobody is perfect, so please give yourself grace, every day. Some days I’m a fierce warrior, other days a puddle on the floor.
- Pat yourself on the back when you know you have conquered and overcome something. Unfortunately, few others will.
- Putting YOU first is not selfish, but rather self-preservation, (self-care, self-love). This is the only place from which you have anything to give.
- Be a doormat or a servant to none. In every relationship both must do their part.
- In every situation, in every way, on every subject, have an opinion that is yours and is not inherited. Do your work to know how you feel. If you don’t know about something, honestly say you don’t know enough about it to comment. Then do your work. There are far too many blind followers on planet Earth. (This is sometimes known as Think for your Damned Self.)
Author & Art Therapy Practitioner